What It Really Means to Come Home to Yourself
By Misty Lamppa
We say that phrase a lot in healing spaces:
Come home to yourself.
But what does that actually mean?
For me, it didn’t happen all at once.
It was a slow unfolding, a quiet remembering, a steady return.
It meant choosing presence over performance.
It meant softening instead of striving.
It meant listening—not to what the world expected—but to what my heart had been whispering for years.
The Home I Didn’t Know I Was Missing
Before Inner Alignment, I didn’t realize how far I’d drifted.
I was living by checklists and deadlines, always doing, always managing. And even though I was showing up for everyone else… I wasn’t fully showing up for myself.
I thought I was strong. I thought I was grounded. But underneath it all, I was exhausted and emotionally unavailable—to me.
I didn’t feel safe in my own body.
I couldn’t slow down without guilt.
I couldn’t rest without shame.
Coming home meant gently reclaiming that safety.
It meant creating space to feel what I hadn’t had time to feel.
And slowly, something inside me began to soften. To settle. To root.
It Wasn’t About Becoming Someone New
That’s the biggest surprise of it all.
Coming home didn’t mean becoming a better version of myself.
It meant un-layering everything that wasn’t me.
The masks.
The striving.
The perfectionism.
The belief that I had to earn my worth.
And underneath it all?
There I was.
Whole.
Worthy.
Already enough.
The Signs of Coming Home
Now, I know I’m home when I can breathe a little deeper.
When my nervous system quiets.
When I stop performing and start simply being.
I know I’m home when I speak to myself with kindness.
When I honor my boundaries without guilt.
When I trust my body’s signals more than the noise of the outside world.
Coming home isn’t a final destination.
It’s a daily practice.
A sacred return.
And every time I forget, I get to remember again.
So if you’re feeling disconnected or far from yourself, I want you to know—
You haven’t lost your way.
You’ve just been out gathering stories.
And whenever you’re ready…
You can come home.